For amazing softness, deep conditioning, and greater manageability, use Aunt Jackie's In Control "Anti-Poof" Moisturizing & Softening Conditioner.  It's perfect as a restorative and reconstructive conditioning treatment, or as a co-wash.  In Control gives vibrancy to dehydrated, brittle, dull, dry-looking hair and softens for easier combing and styling.  Curls and waves become more elongated; smoother coils, twists, and braid-outs become touchably soft and more defined; and heat-styled hair looks silky and frizz-free.  This conditioner contains no petrolatum or mineral oil, keeping hair from feeling oily and weighed down.